Restructuring Schemata From Family of Origin in Couple Therapy

Abstract

The schemata that are often at the basis of resistance to change in couples who are experiencing dysfunction in their relationships are rooted in ingrained experiences from family of origin. The belief systems that underlie such experiences and are influenced by transgenerational dynamics often become galvanized as a result of early learning and the power of parental influence. This article focuses on some of the types of steadfast schemata that are transmitted from generation to generation and presents practical methods for restructuring them. The article also discusses the advantage of encouraging the members of a couple to be more tolerant of certain schemata in each other that may be less amenable to change.