Influences on sexting in an intimate relationship: Motivations, risks, communication, personality traits, and relationship variables

Abstract

People in intimate relationships sext more than those in casual relationships or those who are single. Past research indicates a differential pattern in sexting behaviour based on relationship status, so a closer look at how sexting might serve the sexual and relationship needs of those in intimate relationships is warranted. In this study, we used quantitative and qualitative methods to investigate several factors that influence sexting behaviour within intimate relationships. Participants ( N = 771; 76% women, 23% men, 0.5% non-binary) completed an online questionnaire about personality traits, satisfaction, communication, trust, commitment, motivations, and risks that included open-text space to elaborate responses. This study used incentive motivational theory as a guide. Results suggest that for those in committed relationships, sexting is a way to have intimate connection that is mediated by technology. Participants were motivated to sext for several reasons, but most commonly for sexual gratification. Participants did not perceive there to be any risks to sexting with their partner. Sexting was found to be positively related to relationship and sexual satisfaction, commitment, erotophilia, and sexual sensation seeking. The therapeutic implications of these results are discussed.