Parent experiences during delivery, postpartum, and adoption of children with congenital melanocytic nevi

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AbstractBackground/AimsCongenital melanocytic nevi (CMN) are often unexpected discoveries at time of childbirth or adoption. Understanding how parents/guardians cope with these visible birthmarks can help clinicians better care for children and their families. Using qualitative methods, we sought to categorize early family responses to CMN and identify approaches to better engage with parents early in their child's life.MethodsSemi‐structured interviews were conducted within a broader study on shared decision making for families with children with CMN. Discussions included information on birth and early life experiences. Data was dual‐coded, inductively and deductively, and analyzed with the Parker and Endler framework exploring emotion‐, task‐, and avoidance‐oriented coping.ResultsFifteen parents of 13 children were interviewed. Parents described all three categories of coping. Emotions ranged from guilt, to neutrality, to positive responses seeing their child's CMN. Stress was lower in families with prior knowledge of CMN. Dermatology referral provided an opportunity for learning, but also triggered worry for some families.ConclusionsParents process and react to the diagnosis of CMN with a range of emotions and coping styles. Dermatologists can utilize open‐ended questions to understand family emotions and provide families with tailored knowledge and resources. Early discussion of the diagnosis and family education are important support tools.