Motherhood and Infertility: Viewing Motherhood through the Lens of Infertility

Abstract

This research was motivated by the need to develop positive feminist discourses about women who are infertile and who pursue medical interventions to achieve motherhood. This study analysed how 19 women who wanted children but who could not easily have them constructed their desire for children, motherhood and their infertility. Reasons for wanting children included motherhood as ‘natural instinct’, as ‘a stage in the development of a relationship’ and as ‘social expectation’. These were used to construct motherhood as physical, psychological and social completeness and fulfilment for women. Consequently, infertility was experienced as guilt, inadequacy and failure, reinforced by the language used to describe infertility. Women also discussed their desire for children in terms of reproductive decision-making, emphasizing notions of agency, becoming a parent as a stage in a relationship and infertility as a disruption of life plans. Our analysis argues for a broader definition of motherhood and a wider variety of culturally sanctioned roles for women.